| Location | Leeds |
| Age | 42 years |
| Date of Birth | 9/1964 |
| Date of Death | 8/2007 |
| Visitors | 1,432 since 17/09/2007 |
| Creator |
In remembrance to my wonderful dad who passed away at home aged 42 on the 6th of august 2007.Sadly
missed by everybody who knew him.He was a wonderful Dad,Grandpa,Brother,Son,Partner,Uncle,Friend.
My dad sadly passed away from a long and hard battle with alcohol!He actually passed away by
suffering from a condition called alcoholic kitoacidosis which he was unaware of he must of just
thought he was poorly due to withdrawral symptoms.Towards the end he just hated his addiction.I
believe he is free and happy now with the angels.(As his grandkids say).
Dad I can't believe your gone,you have taken a piece of Our hearts.We knew one day that if you
did'nt stop we were gonna loose you but we never expected it so soon.The doctors said you were
ok.We even had hopes in our hearts you would be stronger and fight this disease but I guess it was
stronger than we thought! Javan and dede miss you so much. I gave birth to a beautiful girl
Aryanna just 3 days after your death.I know you would of been proud of her.I keep playing your songs
over and over thinking of the times we had together ,Us watching you dance to george micheal. The
times you used to take us to yeadon tarn to feed the ducks.All the great time we all had
together.You made us laugh so much! You really were a special person even though you did'nt
think so.You did your best for all of us dad you really did! I smell your t-shirt every night before
I sleep, it comforts me cause it still smells of you.Dad your not here in body but I know your here
in spirit.You will never EVER be forgotten.You are our guardian angel now and I know you will be
watching us forever! I love you so much ! We miss you daddy!
Your only daughter Laura may!xx
Love you sweetpea! x
Anyone who would like to leave condolences please do. Would be much appreciated .Im going through so
many emotions it would be nice to read them and understand what other people have(are) going
through! Thankyou xx
DADDY!
Dad...so many images come to mind
whenever I speak your name;
It seems without you in my life
things have never been the same.
What happened to those lazy days
when I was just a child;
When my life was consumed in you
in your love, and in your smile.
What happened to all those times
when I always looked to you;
No matter what happened in my life
you could make my gray skies blue.
Dad, some days I hear your voice
and turn to see your face;
Yet in my turning...it seems
the sound has been erased.
Dad, who will I turn to for answers
when life does not make sense;
Who will be there to hold me close
when the pieces just don't fit.
Oh, Dad, if I could turn back time
and once more hear your voice;
I'd tell you that out of all the dads
you would still be my choice.
Please always know I love you
and no one can take your place;
Years may come and go
but your memory will never be erased.
Today, Jesus, as You are listening
in your home above;
Would you go and find my dad
and give him all my love.
xx
You always with us dad ALWAYS! XXX
hi dad, i miss you so much i really need you at the moment ther is alot going on and your not around to give me help and guidance. i know your watching over us and wanting to help as you always did, and i know you are. i hope your watching over aunt mizzy as she has been through alot for you and still is, i will look after her for you i know thats what you would want.i wish you could have spent more time with kaytlen but she knows her grandpa is safe up in the stars now as we always tel her. just miss u more every day an grown more atached t your music it seems more meaningfull now. never thought id be wrighting to u on a site like this. luv ya dad.......... matty xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
miss you
Hi,dad.Its been a bit of an emotional day for me today.I looked online and saw that glen and julie lit a candle n left tributes.I was so happy! I couldnt get pictures of you on either n they did it! I am so greatful as i was sad that i didnt have a pic!Well i was just looking through some of my stuff as i was cleaning and found some pics that you gave me b4 u passed.They made me cry AGAIN.I just don't know how im getting through each day . I wish i could tell you more but i never know what to say.I guess il just keep on telling you about me and the kids n rest of family!Dede was really crying the other night saying I 'I miss grandpa' I did'nt think she understood much but she does know that your not here anymore and she wishes you were! Im having some counciling sessions too just to help me a bit more.B4 I cud talk to you ,you were like my personal councilor :-) I wish I still could.I also wish I knew how the rest of the family felt , I feel a bit lonely right now,Im mostly at home alone and its pretty hard! Well i guess il speak soon .miss you more everyday.xxxx xxx xxxx xxxx love you!!
BARRON JEFF
(BRO)
I loved you brother so much,
You were my shining star,
I wish you could be here,
But heaven’s just too far,
So please look down upon us,
And guard us as we go,
Then all the paths we come across,
Are safe and sound for sure,
My memories are wonderful,
I wish you all could see,
My bro you were that someone,
That meant the world to me,
You are gone but never forgotten,
In our hearts you will always stay,
Good Night, God Bless, Sleep Tight,
All our love always,
for ever and ever,
Love from Glen and Jackie XXX
BARRON JEFF
(UNCLE)
Gentle Jesus up above,
Please give Uncle Jeff a great big hug,
We miss you lots,
Love and kisses from your 2 little Sweetpea’s
Glenny and Lee Lee XXX
miss you
To our beloved dad.
In our hearts you will remain,
until the day we meet again.
we feel your presence in everything,
The warmth ,joy and laughter you would bring.
rest in peace we miss you loads.Wayne,matthew and lauramay and jeffers also sammy and leo.
grandchildren, javan, nadine,kaytlen,aryanna and cameron.xxxx
Its ok
Dad one thing thats been playing on my mind is that you were really upset and heart broken that you did'nt come to my weddin.Well let me tell you that nothing in this world could explain how i much i understood.I knew you were poorly and unable to come .I promise from the bottom of my heart i never ever will hold a grudge or be angry or upset about that EVER.You were in my heart and mind .I love you daddy.XXX sleeptight xxxx
miss you
Hi dad,How do i feel today? Well empty.lost,sad.but also happy ,happy that im stronger today than yesterday.Everyday without you is hard but as best as i can put it I need to be strong for the kids!Javan and dede has fancy dress at school today ,they looked absolutely gorgeous.I was thinking about you alot yesterday and all the lovely memories we have of you.One that really stood out was the time i was 11 and in that singing group at town hall and you came to film me and just before you got there the eye peice had broke so you stook it with glue and you forgot as you were filming and the glue made your eye red.It made me smile,and also the time we walked round the dog pond and i stood in dog pooh and you laughed your head off at me.I wanted as much as anybody else to have more memories of you so much.I remember the last time i ever saw you.It was at your flat,you won't remember as you were very drunk.I called the ambulance as your hand was swollen and the fact you were totally drunk ,I was scared dad,but you refused to go AGAIN.I laid you down in bed and pulled the covers over you and kissed you on your cheek and said goodnight.I cant believe that was the last time i saw you.I wish i would have stayed with you.well i cnt write anymore right now cause i cnt see the keyboard cause of my tears,I will write soon ok,..I miss you soooo much and always will.your my daddy.speak soon sweetpeaxxxxxxxlove you xx
miss you
Hi dad its me ! I had a nice birthday.Matthew and Sammy made me a cake n got me some gifts! I went out too had a good time cant believe im 21!Anyway i am up and down at the moment with my feelings I just miss you too much! I just keep remembering the night i came home n leo told me that you had past i couldnt breath!I didnt wanna believe it! I just want you here dad i wish you could come back to us.I would give anything to have you back ANYTHING.I wish i understood your addiction more then maybe i could have been there to help you more!I really cnt believe it took you from us so quickly.One day you were here and next gone! its harder right now as we still dnt know how you passed.Your body was found in the flat by fred your neighbour.But they still dnt know the actual cause of death! It would bring some closer!Oh gosh i miss you dad i really do!I wish things would have been diffrent and you never drank and you were still here watchng us all grow .But maybe things happen for a reason! God decided you had enough pain and suffering so he took you to a safer, better place ! I really hope your happy and ok now and watchiong down on us! If i could tell you anything right now it would be that i forgive you and i love you with all my heart and soul and i will never let you go from my heart! My memories of you are wonderfull.You was(are)one of a kind! speak to you soon .LOVE YOU .xxxxx
miss you
Hi dad,Its been a couple of days now since i wrote,miss you more everyday!I spoke with marie yesterday,She has been through alot over the last couple of weeks! She and sue did so much for you as you will know,I think they did you proud! Marie is a great women dad she really is ,she is a really strong person! It nice that we our closer now and talk alot more! Javan has started school and dede nursery.They love it so much! Me and leo are getting on good too!I just wish i could call you up and ask if we can visit you at the flat n talk to you.I used to hate it though when we came and yuou would cry saying your sorry n feel bad for not being there.Well let me tell you you were and you still are in our minds and hearts! all my memories of you are good ones! everybody makes mistakes dad.Well i love you lots and always will.Speak to you soon! xxx
Miss you
Oh dad i cnt handle this as much as i thought i could! Im dying inside! I know you would'nt want me to cry and be down but its really hard! I am staying strong for the kids though like you would want! I have been writing in my diary too! Matthew n jeffers miss you too! Everybody does! Its such a shock to us all still! It will take along time for me to stop feeling the grief i feel now! I just wanna hold you and kiss your cheek ,If i could swap places with you i would! You had so much to live for and alcohol took that away from you and all of us! I will do everything you asked me to do while you were alive! I miss you speaking to me on the phone for ages! you made me feel happy and safe! well i dnt wanna but i gotta go cus your grandaughter is crying for a bottle! I love you soooooo much!You be in my dreams tonight! by sweetpea! xxxxxxx
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